Sexuality education (SEd) aims to help our young understand the physiological, social and emotional changes they experience as they mature, develop healthy relationships with the opposite sex and to teach them how to make responsible choices. It is premised on the importance of the heterosexual married family as the basic unit of society, and respect for the values and beliefs of the different ethnic and religious communities on sexuality issues.

The goals of SEd are to:

i. provide accurate and adequate knowledge on human sexuality and the consequences of sexual activity so that pupils are able to make informed decisions;
ii. impart intra- and inter-personal skills of problem-solving, decision-making and effective communication so that pupils are able to build responsible and rewarding relationships; and
iii. inculcate positive values and attitudes on sexuality so that pupils develop a respect for themselves and others as sexual beings, in line with the national value of the family as the basic unit of society.

The key messages of SEd are:
i. Build healthy futures for yourself, family and society.
ii. Healthy relationships based on love and respect are the foundation for strong families.
iii. Casual sex can lead to unwanted pregnancies, STIs/HIV and AIDS which can harm and hurt your loved ones.

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Sexuality education in schools is taught in both the formal curriculum and co-curricular programmes. These are covered under four main themes: Human Development, Interpersonal Relationships, Sexual Health and Behaviour, and, Societal Influences.

Formal Curriculum
The curricular subjects in which topics on sexuality are incorporated include

i. Science
ii. Civics and Moral Education
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Co-Curricular Programmes

Growing Years (GY) Programme:

“The Teenage Years” (Lower Sec) package
“Sense & Sexuality” (Upper Sec) package

The values and attitudes of our youth towards sexuality are increasingly being shaped by their peers, exposure to the media, popular culture and the internet. Adolescence is a complex stage in life as the adolescent attempts to find his/her own identity and often struggles with new social relationships. The period of middle adolescence (generally from 15 – 17 years old) can be a turbulent period for adolescents. The gap between physical and emotional/cognitive maturity may result in a tendency to act on impulse, experiment with various activities (including sexual activities), sometimes without understanding the unpleasant consequences that may arise from such experimentation. The need for peer acceptance can be overwhelmingly strong, and hinder one’s ability to act responsibly. Given the pressures faced by the middle adolescent from within themselves and from peers, it is important to build a strong sense of self-worth, personal convictions and an understanding of the possible consequences of sexual behaviour.

Through “The Teenage Years” and “Sense & Sexuality”, secondary students will have the opportunity to develop positive self-esteem, build their character and expand their understanding and repertoire of skills to deal with various issues related to sexuality, which are of prime concern at this age.

INFORMATION FOR PARENTS

1. Parents can opt their children out of the entire sexuality education programme or for individual topics, talks or workshops.

2. Parents who wish to opt their children out of the Growing Years Series need to complete an opt-out form. This form (Click on preferred language: EL , CL , ML, TL) will be distributed to parents at the start of the year and is also downloadable from the school’s website. A hardcopy of the form, duly completed and signed, is to be submitted to the school office.

3. Parents who wish to opt their children out of the Breaking Down Barries Programme need to complete an opt-out form. This form will be distributed to parents prior to the start of the programme and is also downloadable from the school’s website. A hardcopy of the form, duly completed and signed, is to be submitted to the school office.

4. Parents can attend the sexuality education programmes by external providers with their children if they wish to. Parents should contact the school to make the necessary arrangements.

5. For more information, please contact the school at our office numbers - 67862668 / 67835427 or email the school at dunman_ss@moe.edu.sg if you would like to discuss or seek clarifications about our school’s sexuality education programme. You can also call the Principal at 67862668 / 98305443 if you have any concerns.